Quiet Advocacy, Made Visible
A calm way to self-advocate, created with care for the autism community.
This embroidered dad hat carries the gentle message: “Please be patient, I’m autistic.” It’s designed for autistic adults who want to communicate their needs clearly without having to explain. Whether you’re navigating sensory overwhelm, travelling, or simply moving through a busy day, this cap offers comfort and quiet advocacy.
Why This Hat Matters
You may see similar hats online with the wording “please be patient I have autism.” At HeyASD, we honour the autistic community by using identity-first language — “I’m autistic” — because autism is not an illness to be “had,” but an identity to be respected. This hat offers a more authentic and empowering alternative.
Sensory-Friendly Design
- Embroidered “Please be patient, I’m autistic” message
- Soft-washed cotton with adjustable strap
- Lightweight and breathable for everyday comfort
- Durable stitched lettering — subtle, not flashy
Perfect For
- Public outings, commuting, and travel
- Low-energy days when words are hard
- Autistic self-advocacy with calm clarity
Created with care by HeyASD.com — made for and by the autism community.
• Fabric: 100% cotton (65/35 poly-cotton for camo)
• Style: 6-panel, low profile, unstructured
• Closure: Hideaway strap with antique brass buckle
• Visor: Permacurv® pre-curved with matching undervisor
• Sizing: One size fits most (21"–24.8" circumference)